A tremendously smart woman when conspiratorially said that many guys aren’t able to handle their partners’ past, and that honesty is not always the policy that is best. While using the arrogance of youth вЂ” I was 22 then, and loaded into the gills with lofty tips about relationships and love вЂ” we chose to promptly ignore her advice. “no chance!” We rolled my eyes in personal, eyebrows raised stratospherically full of indignation. “I’m never ever likely to hide anything from my partner. Perhaps Not. A. Damn. Thing.”
A lot of men, since many Indian women have started to wearily accept, are not exactly as unperturbed by their girlfriends and wives’ intimate pasts because they’d choose to believe.
The lady was a famous therapist i’d been asked to interview. Eight years on, i am ready to acknowledge this: I became utterly, grotesquely, unequivocally wrong. If I experienced a rupee for each right time i’ve been incorrect about any of it, We’d have a home in Lutyens’, Delhi.Read More